By Shilz
One of my friend, who lost her love, said: "It hurts to breathe because every breath I take proves I can't live without him."
Sometimes it so happens that the spectre of a person's non negotiable past hangs between that person and the one who is trying to read him/her....I feel that a broken heart is not just an empty metaphor but a grievous wound to one's persona !
I have seen several friends who are tormenting greatly because of this. I agree that a mind does not have a so called DELETE button to delete the memories that haunt us or bring us pain ! There is no such thing as "getting over it" !!! A wound can heal but the scar always remains...those words, those dreams shared..those broken promises...those gestures...those caring ways...nothing of those can be erased...may be we pretend to have forgotten everything but such things always remain in our minds....strange is that such memories bring us pain & sometimes laughter...!!!
Not each one of us know the pain & passion of broken hearts..of how cruel people can be to those whom they loved once or may be still love...how opportunistic & mean people can be...to fulfill their needs in the name of love...if we don't know that pain then we are the most luckiest!!!!
However, sometimes it so happens that such pains mark as the foundation stones for achieving something really BIG!!!
Sometimes I wonder..how savage is that love which plants a seed in one field and uproots another field !!!
There is always something to be happy about....!!! With this post, I just request all those broken hearts to smile...because The LORD is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit!
There is no such thing as a "wound" when it comes to emotional trauma's. Lets face it. It is a painful experience. It depends on the person, to accept the reality and move on or continue grieving.
ReplyDeleteI am no expert at matters that concern to one's heart (love).
Will power is capable of making one do amazing (nearly impossible) things. All one has to do is to start using it.
This post contains lot of pain. Thats what I felt.
Thanks for your comment Rocksta :) Inspite of saying dat u r not expert at matters dat concern to one's heart,u have said one very good thing that if we really try we can stop grieving and move on accepting the reality...very true...
ReplyDeleteWe should realize that when we hide our pain and torment like hell within ourselves, being unable to handle it, then life wil hide joys from us. Manytimes, I have felt my strength in the experience of pain...pains are needed to know the essence of "happiness"...I donno about others but I feel suffering teaches us greatestlessons...I have grwon stronger only because of pains..overcoming such pains...pains are needed and courage to overcome it also...